Living in proximity to others can be both rewarding and challenging. As we go about our busy lives, it’s easy to overlook the people living right next to us. However, building relationships with our neighbors can have a profound impact on our lives and communities. Moreover, getting to know your neighbors can also lead to new connections and opportunities. You may discover shared interests or skills that can lead to collaboration on projects or hobbies. You can also learn about local events and activities that you may not have heard of otherwise.
Obviously New Town is a diverse community – young professionals, students, families and retirees all call New Town home. But with busy lives, smart phones that seem to eat more and more of our time and life in general how do we connect?
Sometimes the simplest way is a common interest, or a new hobby or even responding to a need. So how do you do that?
Why Not Join a Club?
There are many clubs and social groups in New Town. Some are: Book Clubs, Garden Club, Retired Men’s Club, Women’s Lunch Group. Just go to the NTRA website and see the link for
Pool & Clubs. Other small groups exist for those who like to sew, play bunco or mahjong, or enjoy good food. Ask around to get in touch with these residents.
But perhaps you don’t see something established that appeals to you. Why not start a club? This month’s
Town Crier highlights some residents who have started a Buy Nothing Group. Other ideas could be a Film Club, Photography Club, Quilting/Crocheting Club, Walking Clubs, Breakfast Clubs (maybe slightly different than the club from the 1985 movie) or perhaps a club for old men who stand at the stop signs and shake their fist at the cars who roll the stop sign (ok, maybe that might not be a good club). If you have thoughts about starting a new club in New Town, you can contact the Communications Committee at
ntrawebsitecommittee@gmail.com for support in getting the word out to recruit members.
Although existing book clubs are currently full, it’s great to hear from Stuart Dopp about a book club she is in. I reached out to her to find out about the club.
New Town Bookies (no horses involved…)
“New Town is full of avid readers, and it’s small wonder that bookish neighbors enjoy discussion groups and friendships with other bibliophiles. One such group is chaired by Liz Fones/Wolf, a retired WVA University history professor. Other members come from varied backgrounds, each bringing a perspective to conversations about the month’s reading choice. For instance, our discussion of Demon Copperhead — a re-telling of Twain’s Huckleberry Finn set in Appalachia in modern times — elicited varied perceptions of contemporary poverty, human striving, and our own roles in the larger world society. Most of us reread Huck, which will be useful also when we next discuss James, the story of Huck’s traveling companion, Jim.
Reading about civil war in Chechnya (A Constellation of Vital Phenomena) forced us to confront unspeakable cruelty and suffering but reminded us of the human potential for goodness and loyalty. It also required research into eastern European geography and history.
Other books have spurred historical/ political inquiry, such as The Warmth of Other Suns, by Isabel Wilkerson, and At the Dark End of the Street, by Danielle McGuire. A fictional account of a rural woman having to leave her farm and vital connection with nature to follow her husband to Detroit during WWII, Dollmaker, touched all of our hearts, and we re-visited the book with the movie. A recent selection (Cave Dwellers) was fiction but a thinly disguised critique of life amongst the rich and famous — or infamous — in Washington. We could visualize the characters as a parody of politicians and values in Washington.
Each book has a discussion leader, but that role is rarely needed. Everyone has ideas to contribute, and even the occasional member who didn’t finish the assignment will find pertinent elements in the conversation. There is a strong sense of humanity within the group, and most of the members participate in civic /charitable endeavors such as the Porch food drives.
Truly, reading helps us to walk in another person’s shoes, to experience worlds beyond our own fortunate lives even as we enjoy our friendships. Meeting as we do in our homes limits our number, but Liz is happy to assist anyone hoping to create a new forum for mind-opening discussions of literature.” Stuart Dopp
Hopefully, as we move into the holiday season, you’ll find a few minutes to ponder 2025 and think about areas you’d like to explore in the new year. Being a part of a small club in a large community can bring many benefits to you and those around you. Not only is knowing your neighbors beneficial for you, it can also improve the general well-being of the community. By building a sense of camaraderie and support, neighbors can work together to improve the quality of life in their area. Community involvement, whether it’s through events, outreach, or simply being a good neighbor, can lead to increased civic pride and a stronger community spirit.